“People who deny the existence of dragons are often eaten by dragons. From within.” -Ursula K. LeGuin, The Wave in the Mind

Ry works with individuals and couples navigating relationship challenges, trauma, anxiety, identity exploration, family estrangement, and life transitions. Ry’s philosophical worldview is rooted in feminist and queer theory, which permeates the work they do with clients. They are especially passionate about supporting clients who are LGBTQ+, neurodivergent, and/or survivors of complex trauma. When working with couples, Ry specializes in improving communication skills, navigating ethical non-monogamy and/or polyamorous relationships, and addressing the role of trauma in relational dynamics. Ry helps all clients better understand emotional patterns, improve communication, strengthen self-esteem, and process difficult experiences to build greater self-compassion, connection, and clarity.

Ry conducts therapy through the lenses of Family Systems Therapy, Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing (EMDR) Therapy, and Experiential Therapy. Family Systems Therapy forms the foundation of Ry’s approach to therapy as it helps clients avoid self-blame and examine how their circumstances are affecting their mental health. Ry uses EMDR to help clients identify and resolve traumatic experiences and negative self-beliefs. Ry enjoys using EMDR with clients because it is a therapy model with decades of research demonstrating its efficacy to treat symptoms related to post-traumatic stress disorder, depression, anxiety, and complex trauma. Ry uses experiential therapy to help clients deepen their self-understanding, embrace their whole self, and improve self-esteem.

They create a warm, respectful space where you can show up fully as yourself without fear of judgment. Whether you’re feeling stuck, overwhelmed, disconnected, or simply ready for change, therapy with Ry can help you better understand yourself, change fixed habits, and move toward a more grounded and authentic life. Ry believes that their role as a therapist is to help you find and befriend the dragon(s) inside you, no matter how scary or daunting that journey may seem.

Ry holds a Master of Arts in Marriage and Family Therapy with a specialization in Trauma-Informed Systemic Care. Outside of work, Ry can be found testing new vegan recipes, snuggling their dog, playing video games, or reading a science fiction novel.